I have known Rich and Marcia, an American married couple, for decades, both of whom work in tech. This is their story about how they decided to pack up and move to a suburb of Lisbon Portugal. I recently interviewed them via Zoom.

They started looking at so-called Golden Visas back in 2016. (You can figure out the significance of that date.) This type of visa is a way for ex-pats to emigrate to a country, with sufficient means to live there permanently. The couple became interested in Portugal and vacationed there a few times before the Covid lock-downs. “There was no second choice country,” Marcia said. They got temporary resident status last summer, and moved there for good in March. They are both about my age, and mostly retired, although Rich continues to work in tech a few days a week. “We wanted a higher quality of life, and wanted to find a place where people aren’t as obsessed with work or doing the Silicon Valley 24/7 hustle to get ahead,” they said. So far things are working out — “We are eating better things that taste better and cost much less.”

Well, almost. “March was horrible,” she said. “Our cognitive load was intense, and we found bunching up errands wasn’t going to work. We had to spread them out more.” Part of the problem is the way Portuguese do things is somewhat different, such as activating a credit card (you first use it to buy something in an actual store, then go through the activation process in person) or doing more business f2f, or navigating governmental processes that involve multiple forms and understanding the sequence involved. (I would say I have the same problem dealing with the City of St. Louis.)

But since then things have gotten better. “It really changes your nervous system, and we are a lot more chill here than in the States,” she said. As an example, the recent extended power outage wasn’t any big deal for either the couple or their neighbors.

Here are some lessons they have learned:

1. If you make the move, understand that you aren’t going to replicate your American lifestyle. “You need to figure out what the natives do and how they live, and build on that,” they said.
2. Throw away any preconceptions that you have formed before the move. “Most of them were flat out wrong,” they said. Amazon Prime next-day delivery? Not in Portugal. Packages will arrive seemingly at random. (I could say the same thing about my own Prime service, sometimes.) Two-factor authentication works slightly differently too. Milk is sold via shelf-stable ultra-pasteurized containers, not in the fridge aisle. There is less of a selection of consumer goods but a wider range of less expensive options to balance it out.
3. Be patient with building your personal friend community. “There is a lot more emphasis on f2f interactions,” they said, and also your community might end up spreading across several cities or even countries. Expect this to take months if not years to build up your network. They initially picked their location because of a large ex-pat English-speaking community, which while true still will take time to find their peeps.
4. Understand your relationship dynamics as a couple. If you are thinking about moving as a couple, realize that after you move you will be dependent on each other for large portions of the day and the majority of situations. If you are used to spending time apart for particular activities, that may require some adjustments. “We are a much more tightly bound to each other and have a different dynamic, because we don’t speak the language and have to depend on each other,” she said.
5. Get your consulting team together to ease the transition, especially if you aren’t fluent in the language. The couple does speak a little Spanish, which is a different language from Portuguese. “But it is the little things that catch us,” they admitted. Who is on their team? Someone who can help navigate the healthcare system (a combination of private and public providers), someone who can help navigate government paperwork and processes, a relocation consultant that is local to your target area to help set up your household, and a lawyer to handle the initial visa requirements. All of these folks will save you a lot of time and frustration and school you in how Things Get Done.
6. Don’t make the move all about saving money. Yes, plenty of places are less expensive than the States (which the couple charmingly refer to as “the old country”), but not necessarily by a big enough discount. And not necessarily uniformly across all expense categories. For example: healthcare. “We get ten times the service at a tenth of the cost of what we had in the States,” Rich said. “Healthcare is a human right here,” said Marcia.

I probably should have written this post a few months ago, but a friend reminded me that it is still relevant, even though many of us filed our taxes last week. As the number of federal employees drops, the time to get online with various agencies makes more sense. And for those of you that have so far resisted the effort to do this — and of course, it is an effort, even for the most technical and computer literate among us — now is the time to get online with the feds. If you have tried to call the IRS for example, or visit a local Social Security Administration (SSA) office (those that are still staffed), you will have to have a tremendous dose of patience.

I should state that getting online with the US government is not quite what it could be, and for that we should look to Estonia where they have been doing this really well for a number of years. The initial experience in getting on board was also somewhat daunting, but now every federal agency there has some form of online access using a single system.

Anyway, back home we have two different central authentication service providers, because why not? The two are ID.me and Login.gov. Not all agencies use both — such as the IRS, which only uses ID.me. But if you pay your taxes online through the EFTPS.gov service, and want to access your account with the SSA, you can authenticate with either one. The two providers have somewhat different processes to get your credentials verified and your account setup.

ID.me has had a lot of growing pains when it was first introduced several years ago. (I wrote about this for Avast’s blog here.) I would not recommend using ID.me if you can use Login.gov as a way into your accounts.

One additional caveat about the IRS. Every January you should be using your online account to request a filing PIN. This prevents anyone else from filing a return with your social and name. Make sure to put this PIN someplace where you will remember it when you do file several months later. you need to request a new PIN each year.

Still with me?

Once you sign up and prove who you are to the service(s) — and the effort isn’t trivial and can be frustrating — you can then create an online account with whatever federal (and in some limited circumstances, state and local) agencies you want to conduct your affairs with that supports the provider. And even if you aren’t old enough to start receiving SSA benefits, you should still have an account with them just to check and make sure your deposits over the years have been properly recorded.

Okay, one final caveat about setting up your accounts. You should protect your account with an additional authentication factor, and both Login.gov and ID.me offer numerous options. The one that I use is a USB hardware key (Google sells its Titan keys shown above, but there are other vendors if you would rather deal with someone else). If you go this route, you should buy at least two keys, and put them in different places (such as office and home). You and your spouse can share the same key if that works for you. After you login to either service, you are asked to insert the key in your computer or phone (or use its NFC radio) and press the blinking icon on the key to finish the login process. One authentication method you should NOT choose is to send a code via SMS to your phone.

Once you get a hardware key, you should augment your logins with it wherever you can. Google, Facebook, your bank, your insurance company, etc. Not all places that you’d like to use it support these keys, which is sad and frustrating. Some banks only support two different keys, which is annoying.

I understand that getting this all setup will take time, and working through the various user interfaces will try your patience. But once this is done, you can interact with the feds digitally, which is a Good Thing. And maybe someday we will approach the digital density that they have in Estonia.

(revised 4/25/25)

A few weeks’ back, I wrote about a friend of mine that I called Jane who had suffered from a phishing attack that led towards her losing more than $30,000 in a pig butchering scheme. She called me last week and stopped by to show me that thanks to her homeowners’ insurance policy, she was able to be reimbursed for $25,000 in losses. This is because of an endorsement that included personal cyber insurance. This is the first time that I have ever heard of such coverage, so naturally I wanted to take a deeper dive.

Probably the best starting point is this 2023 Nerdwallet blog, which also helpfully links to the various insurers. It shows you the numerous perils that could be covered by any policy and makes a point that this insurance can’t cover things that happened before the policy is in force. Another good source is this 2023 blog in Forbes. If scroll down past the come-on links, you will see the perils listed and some other insurers mentioned.

This complexity is both good and bad for consumers who are trying to figure out whether to purchase any cyber insurance. It is good because the insurers recognize that cyber is not just a category like insuring a fur coat, or some other physical item. If your washing machine springs a leak and you have coverage for water damage — something that happened to me a few years ago — it is nice to be insured and be reimbursed. Whether you get the level of reimbursement that will enable you to rip out your floors, replace it with something of approximate value, and get your expenses of having to move your stuff and live in a hotel for a couple of weeks is up to the insurer. And whether your claim will eventually trigger your insurer to drop you, and place you on a block list for the next five years is another story. But you can still purchase coverage and the coverage is — for the most part– well defined.

But cyber insurance is not well defined, because of all these various categories of perils can spill over. If your computer is infected with malware and the attackers ultimately get access to your bank accounts, how do you prove that causality to the satisfaction of the insurer? What happens if you are faced with a demand to pay a ransom to get access to your data? Or if you think you are sending funds to help a family member or co-worker in distress that turns out to be a criminal? Many of the problems happen at that hairy intersection between technology and human error.

Before you go any further down this path, I want to take a moment and describe an entirely different approach. What if the financial vendors took a more pro-active role in stopping cyber fraud? It is happening, albeit slowly and under certain specific situations.

One such example is Coinbase, who wrote about what they are doing in a February blog here. The post presents a series of situations where social engineering played a role in a particular fraudulent scheme. “Coinbase will never make an unsolicited phone call to a customer. Anyone who calls you indicating that they are from Coinbase and wants you to move assets is a scammer. Hang up the phone!” There are other recommendations that span the technical spectrum such as using better authentication factors and rotating API keys. As you may or may not know, Coinbase is deeply involved in crypto transactions, so this is a natural fit.

Contrast this with Bank of America, just to choose someone at random. If you know where to look, you can review five red flags used by scammers, including being contacted by someone unexpectedly, being pressured to act immediately, pay in an unusual way or asked for personal information. Unfortunately, they only allow you to specific two hardware security keys, which seems to go against best security practices.

And this is why we are in the state of affairs with scammers today. Incomplete, imperfect solutions have enabled the scammers to build multi-million dollar scam factories that prey on us all the time. Just this past weekend, both my wife and I got text reminders that the balance on our EZ Pass accounts was low. There were only two problems: neither of us use or even live near anyplace we can use them, and both originated from a French phone number. Sacre bleu! This is an attack which has been around for some time but recently resurfaced.

If you have decided to purchase this type of insurance for you or your family, there are two basic paths. First is to see if you can add a cyber “endorsement” to your existing homeowners or renters policy. If this is possible, decide how much coverage you need. Many insurers have these programs, and here it pays to read the fine print and understand when coverage will kick in and when it won’t:

• • • AIG
    • ​Acuity
    • State Farm 
    • Mercury Insurance​ ​
    • PURE​
    • Integrity Insurance​

If you have an insurer that doesn’t have this capability, you can go with one of two specialist cyber policies. Nerdwallet summarizes these offerings by NFP (they call it Digital Shield) or Blink, a division of Chubb. USAA (my current home insurer) works with Blink for example and offered me an add-on policy for $19/month. Blink doesn’t cover fraud from malicious family members or cyberbullying by employers, a widespread cyber-attack and some other situations. From my reading of the NFP’s Digital Shield webpage, it seems like these situations are covered by their policies. They told me, “We provide coverage under two different plan options, DigitalShield Advantage and DigitalShield Advantage Plus. Because it is a policy designed specifically to cover cyber risks, it may offer more flexibility and broader coverage than the options afforded by some of the “add-on” cyber options offered by home insurers. We offer coverage limits starting at $25,000 for $64 a year, with options up to $250,000 and also additional home office coverage.” You can price these out on this webpage.

The bottom line? While my friend was able to benefit from her cyber policy, you might not. Visesh Gosrani, who is a UK-based cyber insurance expert, told me “The limits these policies come with are normally going to be disappointing. The reason these policies are being bundled is that in the future homeowners are expected to realize that cyber insurance is important and more open to increasing their coverage if they have already had the policy. The short-term risk is that they end up being disappointed by the policy that they had for free or very little cost.”

All this talk about Occupy Greenland this week got me reading this 2013 report from the US Naval Institute about the harsh realities about shipping goods across the Arctic seas. The TL;DR: shipping loads of containers across the top of the world, while shorter in distance than sending it through Panama and Suez — isn’t necessarily cheaper when you do the basic math. Here is why:

First off, the problem is that the typical container ships are huge, and they come that way for a simple reason: the more they carry, the cheaper the cost per container to send it from one port to another. The smaller container ships that could be run in the Arctic are because the ice breakers aren’t as wide. There are also shallower channels that restrict the size of these ships when compared to the global routes. When you add all these factors up, a container going through the Arctic will cost more than twice as much as sending it “the long way around.”

Second, the Arctic isn’t ice-free year round. In actuality, even with global warming, routes are ice-free for only a third of the year, and sometimes less. On top of this, weather conditions can change quickly. Global shipping depends on tight schedules. These also involve making several stops along the way to supply just-in-time manufacturing systems, and spreading the costs of shipping across the route. A typical 40-some-day trip from the eastern US to Asia route is shared by a series of six ships making regular stops. This is called the network effect. Going across the Arctic would not have as many intermediate stops.

But what about other kinds of shipping, such as minerals or energy products that come from Arctic sources? It is possible, but still depends on all sorts of infrastructure to extract and load this material — which does not exist and probably won’t for quite some time.

Finally, with or without Greenland, to send stuff across the Arctic isn’t the same as crossing the Pacific or Atlantic oceans because the connectivity is poor. A typical route has to transit a series of narrow straits that is currently claimed by Russia, with high fees to move through these straits.

“Arctic routes do not now offer an attractive alternative to the more traditional maritime avenues, and are highly unlikely to do so in the future,” the report concludes. And while things have changed somewhat since this report was written, the factors cited above are still valid.

I have split my years living part of the time in suburbs and part in urban areas. This is not counting two times that I lived in the LA area, which I don’t quite know how to quantify. I have learned that I like living in what urbanist researchers (as they are called) classify as a “15-minute neighborhood” — meaning that you can walk or bike to many of the things you need for your daily life within that time frame, which works out to about a mile or so walk and perhaps a three mile bike ride. I also define my neighborhood in St. Louis as walk-to-Whole Foods and walk-to-hospital, somewhat tongue-in-cheek.

Why is this important? Several reasons. First, I don’t like being in a car. On my last residency in LA, I had a 35 mile commute, which could take anywhere from 40 minutes to hours, depending on traffic and natural accidents. At my wife’s suggestion, I turned that commute into a 27 mile car ride and got on my bike for the last (or first) leg. While that lengthened the commute, it got me to ride each day. Now my commute is going from one bedroom (the one I sleep in) to another (that I work in). Some weeks go by where I don’t even use the car.

Second, I like being able to walk to many city services, even apart from WF and the doctors. When the weather is better, I bike in Forest Park, which is about half a mile away and is a real joy for other reasons besides its road and path network.

This research paper, which came out last summer, called “A universal framework for inclusive 15-minute cities,” talks about ways to quantify things across cities and takes a deep dive into specifics. It comes with an interactive map of the world’s urban areas that I could spend a lot of time exploring. The cities are mostly red (if you live here in the States) or mostly blue (if you live in Europe and a few other places). The colors aren’t an indication of political bent but how close to that 15-minute ideal most of the neighborhoods that make up the city are. Here is a screencap of the Long Island neighborhood that I spent many years living in: the area shown includes both my home and office locations, and for the most part is a typical suburban slice.

The cells (which in this view are the walkable area from a center point) are mostly red in that area. Many commuters who worked in the city would take issue with the scores in this part of Long Island, which has one of the fastest travel times into Manhattan, and in my case, I could walk to the train within 15 or so minutes.

The paper brings up an important issue: cities to be useful and equitable have to be inclusive and have services spread across their footprints. Most don’t come close to this ideal. For the 15 minute figure to apply, you need density high enough where people don’t have to drive. The academics write, “the very notion of the 15-minute city can not be a one-size-fits-all solution and is not a viable option in areas with a too-low density and a pronounced sprawl.”

Ray Delahanty makes this point in his latest video where he focuses on Hoboken, New Jersey. (You should subscribe to his videos, where he talks about other urban transportation planning issues. They have a nice mix of entertaining travelogue and acerbic wit.)

Maybe what we need aren’t just more 15-minute neighborhoods, but better distribution of city services.